1 Corinthians 4:5
So don’t make judgments about anyone ahead of time—before the Lord returns. For he will bring our darkest secrets to light and will reveal our private motives. Then God will give to each one whatever praise is due.
Have you ever felt confused by people who speak over your head in order to make them feel bigger and better. Sometimes when a Dr speaks it's like way over our heads and we are like, WHAT? Have you ever experienced this with another Christian or even a church? This is not a good example on how to reach people. Why did Jesus use parables to teach? Jesus knew that he was dealing with the average person and that big words and big talk would not accomplish anything. Jesus refused to preach over peoples head. He wanted everyone to have the opportunity to clearly understand and if this meant talking to them as if they were second graders then so be it, At least they would comprehend his words and storytelling planting a seed that would grow beyond the ears it fell on. I feel Jesus was a great example on how we speak to people. Not that we should always speak in parables, but as a Christian we should come down to the level of the person we are speaking to so that they have every opportunity to understand and not try to beef it up as if we know more. There is a good saying that is a great lesson in this. "Less is More". I never claim to know more than the people I witness to and I try to make the moment comfortable for both of us and not awkward. All I can do is keep it simple , plant the seed and pray that is fall on fertile soil. Something we can learn from a great parable of Jesus is never miss the opportunity to treat everyone with love and compassion as Christ would. We should remember that everyone is a child of God even if they don't realize it themselves. Despite our differences and views of life, they are still a child of God and we have an obligation to treat them as such. Never pass up the opportunity to love someone you don't know.